ok.... theres this girl at my school i rly rly rly rly rly like...
now my friend pj (playerpj1256) told her, then next period, she giggled and said "pj told me.." and i siad"ya.." and i laughed back. then i couldnt get up enough courage to ask here out, but it seemed like she liked me too, all i need is advice.......
my main fear is rejection and making a fool of myslef. if lost so much credibility over the years, and at skool, im the "fat kid" its just hard and wat rly burns me is next period, my friends were making fun of me cause they thought that she was ugly. AND WAT I DONT GET, IS HOW U AUTO MATICALLY GET THE RIGHT TO MAKE FUN OF THE GIRL U LOVE, RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and thats wat ruined my day, i couldnt think straight, and if i was, i was thinking about her (paige
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ok.. idk if this is good or bad
Posted by glbracer - May 8th, 2009
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Well... first thing that I always tell people is to take the power back (no, not Rage).
The concept is really simple: Social blunders like that come from fear, regardless of what it might be of. The biggest one that I see is either fear of rejection or fear of looking foolish (which is really fear of rejection); You're afraid of what they'll think of you. By fearing of what they think, worrying over you you're coming across, you're giving them the power over you and not being able to be yourself.
One of the easiest ways to solve that problem is simply recognizing it as a problem. You'll notice that once you take that power away from them, you'll be able to act more freely.
My biggest fear when I was in high school was rejection. I was able to conquer that once I began to figure this out: Letting one person have that kind of power over you is rediculous. Now, whenever I'm asking a lady out, I always keep this in mind: Keep the power in my hands. Knowing that allows my actions and reactions to be cool and relaxed. Now, no matter what their response to my question is, I have the same attitude. They say yes: "Sweet". They say no: "Sweet"
If they say no, that simply means that you've got more time to find someone who's actually right for you. It's simple as that.
Hopefully this helps.
-Jackson Puppek
thanxs, my main fear is rejection and making a fool of myslef. if lost so much credibility over the years, and at skool, im the "fat kid" its just hard and wat rly burns me is next period, my friends were making fun of me cause they thought that she was ugly. AND WAT I DONT GET, IS HOW U AUTO MATICALLY GET THE RIGHT TO MAKE FUN OF THE GIRL U LOVE, RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and thats wat ruined my day, i couldnt think straight, and if i was, i was thinking about her (paige)
Here's the truth: At your age, your friends are going to be dicks about this kind of stuff. That's just how it is.
The easy way to get past what they say is just building confidence in yourself. If you're a little insecure about your weight, try working out a bit. Even a small diet change can go a long way; I lost 5 pounds after I stopped drinking sodas. If you're afraid of public speaking, watch Jim Carrey movies. That one might sound crazy, but he *always* plays an outspoken character, fairly charismatic, and... well, he's usually hilarious.
-Jackson
lol, true about jim carrey, thanx
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I'll give you my normal shpeal in just a second... just got to find it first